Okay, let me shout it out for you all to hear: I’m so proud of y’all. Being a Muslimah in these days and times is not easy at all but still, we have to remember that it was even more difficult for our Muslim mothers, Ummul Mumineen, back then. During the life of our Prophet Muhammad, salla llahu alayhe was salam, there were female figures who played huge roles for Islam to prevail. Talking about Khadijah bint Khuwalid, his first wife, Zaynab bint Jahsh, Umm Salamah, Nusaybah bint Kab, who fought in one of the wars, Sumayyah, the first female martyr of Islam, Aisha bint Abu Bakr, our first female scholar, and the list can go on and on. Sisters, these are our mothers, our role models. I call them, our superstars. Take a leaf from them and you would never regret it.
So, what’s up with our own lives? We are struggling to keep our Islamic identity despite the media’s portrayal about Muslims and Islam. Mind you, it is not only in the West that one is being faced with ugly stereotypes. I could remember as far back as my college days in Nigeria. The Christians and Muslim students in my university did not really get along when it came to political or even academic events. We were labeled as fanatics, fundamentalists, idol worshippers, and you complete the rest. That was fifteen years ago and still, the islamophobia is still deep and getting even worse, all over the world.
But hey! I’m so proud of my Muslim sisters, especially the youth sisters who have triumphed despite all odds against their identities. For real, they inspire me. They inspire me because when I was a youth, I knew next to nothing about Islam. Born into a Muslim non-practicing family, I grew up knowing so much about Catholicism than Islam, at least for eleven straight years, (in elementary and high schools) until I got into college. All praise is only due to Allah, the One in whose hands my soul is. I wonder what I would have turned into had I not known Islam at all. I thank Allah for His hidayah, guidance.
In Nigeria, where young Muslim women are facing blatant discrimination because of their beautiful adornments, and in the United States, where Muslim women are viewed as dummies, or crummy mommies, I feel a sense of pride, gratitude, and awe at the works all my sisters are involved in, from all regions in the world.
So, I am shouting it out again: I am proud of you all. Do not relent. Have no regrets. No good deed goes unrewarded. Always have the best of intention, which is seeking Allah’s pleasure.
Aluta Continua. Victoria Ascerta.
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